Saturday, February 27, 2010

Just What the Doctor Ordered

I need to remember that if I am ever feeling less than 100% that my ticket to happiness is a little physical activity. Tonight I went to an activity at the Davis Rec Center. For $3 I played racquetball, ice skated, and swam all my troubles away. It was blissful!

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Call Me Irresponsible

Dinner: cupcakes and cheesecake
Activity: Girl Talk! at Heidi's house- till late
Did not do: homework, practice singing...
How I feel about it: Great!!
New Life Goal: Live in the NOW without guilt- just joy (requiring some planning and self-control of course- but leave the nazi/nun life with the nazis and nuns)
New Life Goal: Learn how to want- again without the guilt

I had a great night.

Friday, February 19, 2010

The Ride Has Ended

They say that an ending is also a beginning. That by sacrificing everything you are then free to receive everything. But frequently the problem is perspective. When a door firmly closes in front of you ending the course you were currently on, the door looks really big, in fact the door is all you can see. The window that is opening to you is not in sight. Even turning your head around isn't enough because you are standing too close to the door. There is only one thing that will give the perspective to be able to see more than the door and that is distance- our good friend time.
I have reached an ending. I wonder if endings are difficult because eternal is our nature and endings go against our nature. Despite the struggle and my dislike for them, I am getting better at endings, much better than I used to be. Perhaps practice does make perfect after all. The mix of emotions comes as a cocktail not to be found in any other way. Relief, mourning, apathy, regret, liberation, the budding of new dreams, the painful death of old dreams, fatigue, concern, confusion... Relearning and redefining self all over again. And what are the right steps to take anyway? I am thankful that the true desires of my heart will stand as my judgement as much or more than my actions.
Right now I am just tired. Drained dry. The ride has ended, the park is closing and it is time to find refuge in a long winters nap. Isn't that one of the best things about winter anyway?

Thursday, February 11, 2010

my mistake

J/K the rollar coaster ride hasn't ended yet.

Weeeee?

I woke this morning up so cozy and warm in my bed. - I spied out my window and saw beautiful snowflakes falling and trees leaning heavy with the weight of the inches heavy snow lining the branches. It wasn't sticking to the streets so driving wasn't a problem and we have been so dry the snow was a welcome sight. It was one of those mornings where everything felt right and beautiful in the world.
Alas in an instant it was gone. I soon felt I was on the top of a roller coaster falling down so fast that my stomach landed in my throat. Blissful confidence of forward progression is traded in for a pair of sea legs on dry land. And the day somewhat proceeded with a series of up and downs to make no doubt that I in fact woke up in an amusement park this morning and was actually on a roller coaster.
Now the ride seems to have stopped- and I am walking wobbly woozily waiting for everything to settle back down to the calm hum drum of everyday life. Soon I can shake off the unsettled feeling, forget the stomach drop, and remember only the adventure of the ride.

Wednesday, February 10, 2010